Showing posts from: May 2013
Perhaps the majority of the readers of this blog are parents and perhaps only a few teenagers visit. With that understanding, this post is about a topic which none of us parents had to even think about while growing up but which we better now, if we know what’s good for us – and our kids.
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[Site no longer active – which makes me sorry for you. You really should have seen it in it’s day!]
“What would you do if you weren’t afraid” is the subtitle of a blog by a Boise Idaho family who rode their bicycles the entire American continent – Alaska to Argentina. Mom, dad and twin 12-year-old boys took three years of “home schooling,” did it… and wrote about it.
[Site no longer active ]
[http://familyonbikes.org/blog/journal/journal-entries/]
It is becoming more clear every day that if we want to maintain even a mere semblance of a moral society, parents are going to have to step it up a bit from what we’re used to.
There’s lying, cheating and mayhem, to name but a few “habits” of more and more “gen z’s”; but, truly, if parent’s aren’t parenting their children about sex, pressure tactics and promiscuity then absolutely nobody is!
A psychology professor I had, way back in the midst’s of time, taught us that: “morality is the most economical means of living in a society.” Self-adherence to moral principles actually enable’s the literal sustainability of a society. Without it, the society eventually self-destructs.
I believe it… more and more every day.
12 Posts in "Parenting - Sex" Series
- Parenting About Sex, Pressure and Promiscuity Series: Intro/Index – 28 May 2013
Parenting your child about sex, pressure and promiscuity, not as hard or easy as you might think.
- Sexting: Risky Teen Behavior – 30 May 2013
This post is about a topic which none of us parents had to even think about while growing up but which we better now, if we know what's good for us – and our kids.
- Sexting, What Teens Should Know – 1 Jun 2013
A link to a blog post by Hayley Kaplan which exposes little known facts about sexting on their phones and computers to teens.
- Sexting, What Parents Should Know – 3 Jun 2013
A link to a follow-up blog post by Hayley Kaplan. This time giving advice for parents.
- Adolescent Gyn or Pelvic Exams – 11 Jun 2014
Recent advances in disease testing methods as well as research into contraception and infection issues has recently prompted a review and adjustment to guidelines for adolescent gyn or pelvic exams.
- Talking to Your Teen About Sex – 13 Jul 2014
Talk doesn't seem to be enough anymore. Here's a link to what the Mayo Clinic has to say about talking to your teens about sex.
- Parenting about sex and peer pressure – 27 Aug 2015
If you're not helping your teen to resist pressure about sex… then nobody is.
- Link - Am I ready for sex? – 31 Aug 2015
Your teen will probably never ask you if they're ready to have sex; but, they might read a pamphlet about it…
- Parenting: Healthy Relationships – 2 Sep 2015
The signs of healthy relationships and how to have one.
- Link - Sexual attraction and orientation – 6 Sep 2015
More than ever, every teen needs to find an adult (or near adult) confidant they can relate and talk to. This link to a printable article about sexual attraction and orientation.
- Talking To Girls About Menstruation – 23 Apr 2016
Aditi Gupta — Menstruation, Periods and Hygiene
It's true: talking about menstruation makes many people uncomfortable. And that taboo has consequences: in India, three out of every 10 girls don't even know what menstruation is at the time of their first period, and restrictive customs related to periods inflict psychological damage on young girls. Growing up with this taboo herself, Aditi Gupta knew she wanted to help girls, parents and teachers talk about periods comfortably and without shame. In this TED talk video, she shares how she did it.
- Medical Consent by Teens For Their Own Care, by state – 3 Jun 2016
The topic of when your children can give their own consent for their own medical care has been a hot topic for a couple of decades now and is still mostly left up to state law which means that it's still a jumbled and somewhat confusing issue.
[A daughter seems to have had a change in her voice after her tonsillectomy and adenoidectomy.]
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The billions of sore throats in the world every year are almost all caused by viruses which: means they will resolve on their own, no antibiotics will help and, in fact, may even last longer if we fool around trying to fuss with them. Notice I said “almost” because there is a tiny sub-group of them caused by GAS (group A Streptococcus) which causes physicians grief in trying to diagnose and treat.
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[A “worried mum” from the UK is concerned about her four-year-old son’s multiple health problems: sore throats, antibiotics, mold and night cramps.]
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How do you find a doctor for your child? The most highly trained, specifically for children, would be a board certified Pediatrician; but, not all doctors are equal and doctors do change during their career. You shouldn’t need to put up with poor office and practice procedures like availability, returning phone calls and lab follow-up. Here is some advice on how to locate a good doctor for your child in your area and a list of questions to answer when “interviewing” potential pediatricians.
[http://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/health-management/Pages/How-To-Choose-A-Pediatrician.aspx]
[A woman is grateful for the more thorough articles on the Pediatric House Calls blog.]
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Which kind of thermometer do you purchase to take your child’s temperature? This article explains the options with their pros and cons. The cheapest and most reliable is still the old-fashioned mercury one your mom and grandma used but the digital one is next best.
[http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/infant-and-toddler-health/in-depth/thermometer/art-20047410]
I don’t usually post articles with such an intense featured image; but, I want to, perhaps, set a new mental image for people when they hear the words “peanut allergy.”
I believe the medical profession (and others) are doing the community a disservice by using the words “allergy” in relation to peanuts for it brings to mind runny noses, coughs, itchy eyes, rashes and wheezing when it SHOULD bring hospital beds, respirators, cardiac arrests and even worse.
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[An international reader of the blog whose “licensed doctor for the young/kids” diagnoses “tonsillitis” and “Typhoid fever” frequently making him confused.]
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Oh, for the days when you were sick and you simply stayed in bed. Now, just as we seem to do with everything else, we over-think it to the point of complete distraction. Keeping sick kids home. What about school commitments, work commitments, baby sitters, getting to the doctors, the other kids – home, work, school, Aggghhhh!
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